Misunderstood

I don't know what to say. To be honest, I don't even know how handle things that aren't conversant me. As much as I wanted to explain myself, I was so scared that it might end up the same result - misunderstood.

As much as I wanted to say that I am not standing on their opposite thoughts, that we have the same goals, but I just lost my time nor I have not given any. Sad part, they have judged me instantly, enough for my husband to get mad and asked what are their thoughts of thinking that  they were being outcast on that given situation. I don't even understand their point of telling my husband that they want to go home and leave everything behind, just because they felt that they were being bypassed. That infact, I have never in mind grabbing any responsibility unless otherwise asked me to do so.

I was asked to help, yeah! hubby did that, and as always, I am willing to extend whatever help I can. Without any back intentions of hurting anybody around. I am not a type of person who wanted to grab scene, I am not insecure to do that. I was trying to extend my support with my husband, that's all!! I never expected that it might turn bad to somebody who think and act so immature of getting the situation worst. 

Maybe we just have different ways of expressing ourselves into others. I am sorry if you judged me based on what you've seen and because you've hurt. But believe me, I don't have any intentions of hurting you. Again, I was just trying to help!