I am trying to put myself in behalf of a friend's situation, just to become a sensable person for her to lean on, because am pretty sure that she needed a warm shoulder to cry on.
She was betrayed by her long time boyfriend and soon to be married this June. I have known their relationship ever since the guy courted my friend and until now. I must say that they we're happy and trully inlove, they share same thoughts and most of the time same craziness. They we're almost a perfect couple, I, myself once envious with them.
Honestly, I can't find the right words to comfort her and to make her smile just for that moment. Especially when she asked me, "IF TRUST HAS BEEN BROKEN, CAN IT BE GOTTEN BACK?" One thing I remembered, I have said to her and I am not so sure if it is worthy to swallow.
Here's my suggestion: (dear, correct me if this is what I have said or not, okay.. will edit my page ASAP!!!)
If the trust was broken, it was broken already and it was never been as whole as before. But it is not necessary to end up the relationship and succumb with your anger. You have to learn that people are not perfect, I understand that you are hurt and it was not easy to re-build whatever trust you both had. Consider second changes, but you have to be clear on what your parameters are, set some limits. Then, when he betrayed you again, that's the time to quit.
She cried after that statement of mine, and she cried more than I am expecting her too.
eii, DEAR READERS, my friend is ineed with your advices. So please write some and she will appreciate your voices.